I receive a lot of messages about my book, Unstoppable Influence: Be You. Be Fearless. Transform Lives. Most are positive, but I do get the occasional naysayer.

One recent naysayer sent me a long message explaining in great detail why they thought my book was total crap, and that the only thing they got out of it was that weight loss is the answer to all life’s problems.

Anyone who’s read the book knows that statement is not anywhere close to the truth.

At first I was outraged and indignant, wondering whether this person had even read the book. My Ego was in full overdrive!

But then I took a breath and a step back…because as I read between the lines of this person’s message, I realized there was more going on.

Watch my video below to not only hear what the problem really was, plus hear the startling way this person responded after I replied to their ranting message.


Did you know that you’re here on purpose and for a purpose, and it’s an important one? You were born with a light that’s meant to shine in this world, and reach people only YOU can reach. But sometimes our lights get dimmed by life, and even when we want to shine them, we’re scared and don’t know where to even start. If that’s you, click here to check out the next Unstoppable Influence Challenge, where you can learn how to Be You, Be Fearless, and Transform Lives.