“Why does bad stuff always happen to me” is a question I used to ask myself All. The. Time.

Finally, after years and years of doing this, I was blessed with not one, but two answers to this question.

The first answer was that, by focusing on the “bad” things I didn’t want, I was inviting more of them into my life. What we think about is what happens!

But the second answer was the real game-changer for me. It’s not only allowed me to cope with “bad things,”…but to be grateful for them.

Sound crazy? It won’t after you watch the video below!